@feeshadrawz
Some of the worst men get off on women crying, and it disGUSTS me. I’m sorry you were in a group like that, but I’m so glad you know never to neglect red flags again.
@NickReyes-vd2ke
As a male this is really frustrating You shouldn’t have to feel uncomfortable around men but yet here we are
@lemonmeat
this video is helping me realize, because recently ive been in a 'friend group' like this, this is my FULL ticket to leave (well, i was already trying to distance myself, but now im going to even MORE) im so sorry you had to deal with human scum. this world raises monsters and acts like it's normal.
@Sammyizsleepyok
Okay, i'm gonna be honest. I'm 21 and just out of my first "large friend group" and i had previously left an entire few paragraphs about all the bad people i met there? But now i'm just like- no. You're definitely right, even just having one friend is fine. I've struggled with loneliness for 10 years since i was a kid, and only recently got into socialising properly with other people, but this one was a learning curve. I hope you're doing okay now shgurr, please take care. u_u
@agutierrez7106
This is a whole nother level of assault. I wonder how that guy's girlfriend is doing now because this no one deserves anything like that
@nayshaclarke5078
I’m so sorry you went through that, I’m literally teary eyed listening to this. I feel like that group was just full of sadistic misogynists and they were “enjoying” watching you suffer in that moment.
@sawyerkettler3783
This was actually a very helpful video on understanding why alot of women are automatically wary of men. Now you got me super interested in all your view on gender politics, to bad for parasocial relationships and the fact you're a stranger on the internet I don't actually know. Great art btw.
@mr.jtophat
"They Just Stared While I Screamed" that... is one god damn powerfully ominous title
@BellsGamingCorner
“a crush is just a lack of information” actually a good quote, also I love the art!
@andrejuarez
I'm sorry you had to go through that. I had a similar experience with a group of girls in highschool. It messed up my perception of woman for a long time. I hope you have, and have had better experiences with better men.
@at0micwaste
3:23 I'm convinced this is more normal than a lot of men are willing to admit. A lot of supposedly straight dudes will act SUPER gay with each other, and if I say anything (guy here) they get mad and call me gay? Whatever dudes, maybe go to therapy or something.
@CoolBoyShane
This got my blood boiling... I'm so sorry that happened to you. I've had bad outings before, but never seen someone assault a woman at a party and NOT be immediately jumped. You are right - the kinds of people you surround yourself with will make or break your faith in groups - and apparently, men too! Hope you're doing better!
@jessevazquez8984
My anger issues could never. I am so sorry you went through that
@TartLover2763
As a boy, I can safely agree with you that I don’t like hanging out with large male friend groups. The inappropriate jokes, the way they’d touch each other just made me lose faith in them as people. That’s why I see their personalities as unattractive and prefer just being alone.
@BunchaWords
I hope we get more present Shgurr stories, because I feel like past Shgurr is being tortured every time i hear about her x.x
@IPhoneloverXD
ngl as a male with a male friend group I see other friend groups like this it makes me feel lucky for the friends that I have cuz seeing stuff like that just is weird to me but I see it so often it just like becomes hard to trust people, which is probably why I ended up with only online friends lmaoo
@Lightheart_1.0
Asexual as hell and felt my body getting sick hearing how degenerate that walking the red flag of a group was not only to women, but each other. On top of that they basically did NOTHING to help you out from that monster HARMING YOU physically. Thank God you dropped them all because they would have let you get killed and they wouldn't get the hint to help you at. 💀 As a survivor, I can never find myself trusting a group of men unless they are online and far away from me. Hopefully as time goes on I hope we can all find a trusting group. But for now I'll just stick to a couple of friends at a time. Stay safe, trust your gut, and continue your healing journey everyone! 🫂💞
@krunch3444
Just fyi, "toxic masculinity" doesn't mean men behaving in toxic ways or being misogynistic. It refers to how societal standards of masculinity and gender can be toxic to men. It was coined by a men's rights group. Sorry, It's just that I like this term and the ideas behind it and I'm upset because it's so often used wrong. Like these type of guys are not toxically masculine, just horrible and awful, probably sociopathic. That's not something that can be excused or explained by toxic masculinity. Toxic masculinity is something that all socialized men deal with to some extent and have to overcome. edit: somehow managed to misspell FYI as fwy... I don't even know
@0_sparkie
Even though I am a male, I'm completely with you on the subject. I find what some do in male friend groups disgusting. I've been "friends" with many males like this, and it just creeps me out. Thank you for making this. I now know I'm not crazy.
@c5712b4