@gtvwd2019
Perfect advice! Gaslighting is a form of abuse, Narcissist are hard to be seen by family court.
@debbie4503
Another great video, Matthew!
@californiagirl-hw3zo
Great JOB! Hey Matthew, I just bought the pink shirt! I love it!
@Razorback0911
Great job!!!!
@SleepwalkFan
Mine was abuse. I spent 3 months in women's shelter healing. Only vow now is to NEVER date again. I lost all trust.
@SonOfNone
In my state, WA, it is considered DV to destroy property within the vicinity of your partner. So, you learned your fiancé is having an intimate relationship outside your relationship while you're driving and you punch the windshield in disbelief? That's DV [assuming you meet the definition of a domestic relationship, which doesn't take much honestly]. It's really sad because I've witnessed plenty of arrests from people that, seemingly, were unable to control their emotions but nonetheless believed they were not directing their frustrations at their partner.
@Sarina-u2y
Wow
@coryp6868
I agree that controlling behavior is gateway to abuse. However, I'm not sure about my stance on "out in public" things like clothing, behavior, interactions with other people, etc. I feel like each family has their right to structure and traditionally part of that structure is sharing values such as "don't dress like a slut to our kid's baseball game." So in that case I wouldn't called it controlling, but a value-driven expectation. ❤
@tucko11
Should be told as "Reason's why not to get married" every woman that files for divorce when it's not from abuse or being infidelity. They freaking give a list of non-specific reasons that don't really make sense at all. Like what did he leave the toilet seat up? There's gotta be a specific reason it can't be some reason that falls into the Karen category. This is why our courts and laws don't really work for divorce. This is why marriage fails. It's not the peoples fault. It is the courts fault. They automatically award custody to the woman by default. That is wrong. When I see with marriages that do work. It is both people are unified and a partnership. The question is why do people get married for the wrong reasons. That's on them. And the court shouldn't award somebody in that category. Only if a woman's been abused verbally abused or the guy cheated on her then OK she should be awarded the royalties or whatever. If two people got married and then she wants to divorce him to split his bucks that's on the court that's on the judge that's on the attorney. They make so much money from these divorce trials that it's not even funny so before you point, the men better look at the other points involved Can't just get married go on your honeymoon and then get divorced in three weeks. That's what people do. Why should marriage be promoted because government wants us to pay more tax it works out advantageous that's why we have all these billionaires all these corrupt governors it's all because of marriage, dude. The courts should red flag these gold diggers or men who wanna get married for sex. If they're sworn under oath the judge or whatever should look into that and the lawyer should ask these questions but these lawyers don't because they wanna make Buku money off it so the lawyers are just bad. You need to ask these people why did you get married in the first place. If you don't love the person? If they weren't abusive, and they weren't unfaithful , what is your reason for divorce. Now if people have been together for 20 years and it's just not the same anymore than that I can understand. But if somebody got married six months ago and now they want to divorce and they want half the person assets I mean come on that's a scam that should be punishable by law in my opinion.
@Control_Khaibasen
This guy likes being politically correct.
@smbpickles